Zachary Zane

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DOGGY STYLE IS AMONG the world’s most popular sex positions, and for good reason. It tends to feel good for both partners, especially if you’re into deep penetration; it accommodates people with a smaller-than-average package; and if you’re on the giving end, you get a great view. But even our favorite sex positions can get a little stale after a while, especially if you’re always doing it with the same person.If you’re looking for a fun twist on doggy style, allow us to introduce you to the pro…

Being polyamorous can be a little...tricky over the holidays, to put it delicately. Trust me, I know from firsthand experience. Two years ago, I had two serious partners: a boyfriend and a girlfriend. In early November, I had sit-down conversations with each of them where we agreed I’d spend Christmas with my girlfriend and her family, and New Years with my boyfriend. (Simple enough, right?) They both thought it was fair, but the week between the holidays, my girlfriend was getting jealous that…

Most of the times you like your sex hot, passionate, and sweaty. This is not one of those times.

ANILINGUS—ALSO KNOWN AS rimming, tossing salad, ass-eating, peach munching, eating the booty like groceries—is often considered a “taboo” act, but it’s probably more common than you think. A 2016 study published in The Journal of Sex Research looked at data from 40,000 married and cohabitating couples. While only 14% of those couples reported having anal sex in the last year, 30% said they’d enjoyed “anal stimulation,” which might involve fingers, a sex toy, or—in the case of anilingus—licks fro…

I’m Zachary Zane, a sex writer, author, and ethical Boyslut (a fancy way of saying I sleep with a lot of people, and I’m very, very open about it). Over the years, I’ve had my fair share of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. In doing so, I’ve learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). I’m here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn’t j…

I WAS WADING IN the pool, the hot Jamaican sun beating down on my shoulders. Around me, dozens of other tourists were deep in conversation about their plans for the coming week in paradise. Drinks were flowing, and people were already getting flirty. “After dinner, my wife was thinking of heading to the Kama Sutra Palace,” I heard a man say behind me. “We don’t want to go all out tonight—it’s our first night here—but we could at least take a few dicks each.”Turning around, I saw the speaker was…

Think you masturbate too much? Here are the physical and psychological symptoms that may indicate you need to take a break—or even seek help.

I’m Zachary Zane, a sex writer, author, and ethical Boyslut (a fancy way of saying I sleep with a lot of people, and I’m very, very open about it). Over the years, I’ve had my fair share of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. In doing so, I’ve learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). I’m here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn’t j…