We don't NEED immense student debt or people losing everything because of a hospital visit. That's a choice wealthy politicians made for their own benefit.
"I found out one night years ago when my dad had too much to drink and told me. Both of my parents are now deceased. They would never talk to me about it after that one time."
You can totally have a no-frills, budget wedding! But if you're saving money by having your "bathrooms" be bales of hay people pee on...we have a problem.