Tom Miller

When it comes to letting the infidelity cat out of the bag, a recent survey uncovered that ladies will tell their friends about an affair while dudes are much more likely to keep it to themselves. Do cheaters tell their friends? The bottom line of the survey is that 72% of women who cheat tell someone about their affair, whereas only 23% of men feel a need to confess their infidelities to anyone at all. RELATED: 10 All-Too-Common Myths About Cheating In A Relationship ... Debunked! Here’s why g…

Honesty is among one of the better policies, right up there with the No Child Left Behind Act (in theory) and “Let people off the train before you start getting on it,” in terms of general value to society at large. Yet, we’ve grown so sensitive to too much, and honestly we need more honesty. Sure, it can take a bowlful of sugar to make some medicine go down, but a total reluctance to criticize our friends is a disservice to them and ourselves. However, too much “calling it like we see it” quick…

(Insert the gender you are not) are weirdos. We can all agree about that. Maybe they’re not from a planet named after a Greek god but they do things that you just don’t understand. Is it how they were raised? Is it because of some hormone that you lack? Is it because they’re emulating someone admirable they’ve seen on television, in films, or on the stage? No one knows or cares. You just know that stuff they do (and say!) doesn’t always make sense to you, and you’re pretty sure the stuff they do…

I’d never advocate someone make a drastic personality change to find a partner. And this one is a twofer: A) there is probably someone out there that can get on board with who you are and B) most personality changes are either temporary or the kind of exhausting that may eventually result in hysterical blindness. NOT WORTH IT. However, small tweaks are possible and are likely the only reason over 90 percent of us may not end up stark raving alone. That said, losing five pounds probably isn’t as…

You’re busy AF — as any 17-year-old may text her best friend. And your AF may be colossally different from Steve Harvey’s, so let’s agree that we’re all probably too busy to really take on the “be better” mantra all of us seem to be intently flailing at these days. Getting yoked or learning conversational Cantonese is going to take some time. Like, dedicate your life instead of ever playing Candy Crush again kind of time. Ain’t nobody got time for that, right? But you can do a handful of things…

There’s a middle ground somewhere between over-the-top flirting and playing it too coy.

In some circles of belief, marrying a handful of ladies is commonplace. We’re talking about circles containing people with mildly different sensibilities than those of your run-of-the-mill Judeo-Christian American. While such behavior tends to leave many of us shocked and a few of us appalled, it still hasn’t convinced us to stop watching programs that feature polygamy, like Sister Wives and Big Love . RELATED: What It’s Like To Have Two Husbands — Oh, And Two Wives But in 2011, an Indian man t…

Interesting news has come to us via The State University of New York at Buffalo (aka SUNY Buffalo). Evidently, couples that booze together cruise together for life. According to a report released by the university , Dr. Gregory Homish, assistant professor of health behavior, and his team have found that couples who share similar levels of engagement in certain vices — specifically, drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes — are more likely to be content in their relationships than couples whose d…

A week or so ago, social media reports started trickling in that comedian Brody Stevens had died. The gut punch was that the 48-year old actor died by an apparent suicide. You’d likely have to be either into the comedy scene or listen to a lot of podcasts to really have an idea who Stevens was (he once toured with Dave Chappelle), but you probably would recognize his face from the first two Hangover films. Stevens had a uniquely nasal voice — sharp enough to cut diamonds — and was a generally…

I sometimes experience a phenomenon called sleep paralysis. But what is sleep paralysis? It’s something I can only describe... I lie in my bed, unable to move. Is there a new bulb in the street light? Why is it red? She looms over me, covered in a decaying, gauzy nightgown. I can’t see her, she’s there. I can’t hear her; I’m desperate so that she can’t hear me. Someone else is whispering. What is he saying? There’s nothing on my chest but the covers weigh everything. This is my bed, my room, an…

Growing up, I was always disappointed that I didn’t have any brothers. I managed to forge brotherhoods along the way, generally through beer and shirtless wrestling, but as an adult I couldn’t be more thankful for having a sister. I love my sister; in fact, I have two of them! I’m incredibly close with both and think I’d be a much crappier person without them. Would I have been a pretty good guy had it been brothers instead? Possibly. But we also could have been bank robbers... you rarely hear a…

Were it not for booze-fueled sex, 50-60 percent of us wouldn’t be here. So let’s none of us sell the act so short. I’m willing to bet the Churchill family line would have ended well before they could “fight on the beaches ... and liberate the old” et cetera. Buuuuuuuut, periodically isn’t a good idea to, you know, get it on without a 70 proof sidecar? DigitalSpy tells us that one in ten British couples have not had sober sex for half a year. RELATED: Why Drunk, Sloppy, Laughter-Filled Sex Is The…

Travel, for some of us, is kind of stressful. We know intellectually that based on past experience it’s probably not going to dip much under a five out of ten in terms of fun unless it’s a funeral or an unexpected weekend in Fallujah. via GIPHY Not to channel every hack comedian who has ever or will ever live, but the airport ain’t a picnic unless you go to picnics involving a under-trained security guards given zero latitude to be decent human beings, waiters/safety personnel who have gotten si…

When it comes to sex , my favorite gender double standard is probably the one where a guy who’s “allergic” to condoms is a liar and a creep, and a chick with the same terrible latex malady is a keeper. The rest of y’all seem to be hung up on the “sex number” game. Are you still lying about your number of sex partners? Here’s the deal: We celebrate the dude with lots of partners . I believe Wilt Chamberlain had several parades to commemorate his boudoir efforts (because it couldn’t have been his…

You like what you like . Your tastes change and periodically you get surprised, but you’re entitled to dig and lust after and love whatever and whomever you want to (caveat: consenting, willing adults.) And f*ck, man, I appreciate if the kind of love you like has been outlawed, denigrated and generally look upon unfavorably by the masses; then you may be very interested in celebrating either its acceptance or your defiance regarding its lack of acceptance. Kudos. via GIPHY HOWEVER, liking sma…

Fifty Shades Of Grey sky-rocketed up the fiction best-seller charts, as well as the underwear of America’s women. Because of its kinky content , the book inspired many essays about BDSM , sexual power and contemporary, American ladies. It was even turned into a movie in 2015. Some argue that true feminists shouldn’t enjoy being submissive , while others content there’s not a damn thing wrong with it. Here are 3 damn good reasons spanking and feminism go hand in hand, and why every feminist can…

You know how people believe that most engaged women are just an eyelash away from switching from happy fiancée to batsh*t bridezilla? It turns out that is not really true. Per the good Dr. Sanjay Gupta’s CNN.com blog, engaged people are America’s happiest. The study conducted by Keirsey Research correlated relative levels of happiness with various internal and external factors, and the result were largely as one might expect. Though money can’t buy happiness, 73 percent of the people who made mo…

When it comes to love and sex in Japan there are a few things westerners find a mite peculiar; love hotels (where little love takes place), used-panty vending machines, pillowcase girlfriends (James Franco’s into it) and a seeming lack of interest in sexual intercourse from their young men. Not to mention pixelated genitalia in their pornography. Are they becoming robots? Probably not. But one Japanese man is out-pacing American in the manufactured girlfriend game. Sure, American football player…

Whether it’s meeting our heroes or seeing how the sausage is made, the world really has a way of dashing our hopes with a peek behind the curtain. Good news , gang, a sex doll factor tour TOTALLY lives up to, and some may say exceeds, any and all expectations. The Daily Mail had some artistic time on its hands and did a great write-up on a photo project by a guy named Zachary Canepari. Mr. Canepari, possibly a fan of Lars And The Real Girl (like anyone who as ever seen it), decided he wanted to…

The Japanese archipelago seems to have an entirely different set of sexual preoccupations than those of us westerners. (NOTE: Are Australians westerners because they speak English?) Things like extra-marital affairs, cartoon porn featuring Lovecraftian creatures and super-powered teens and vending machines selling previously-used panties are commonplace if not de rigueur. That being said, they appear to have their limits. And it looks like that limit is around 330 pounds. Per Fox News , a prosti…